Alan DeMar

Alan Steven DeMar

Monday, August 16th, 1954 - Monday, June 1st, 2020
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Alan Steven DeMar CPA, PFS, CFP®, age 65, of Arlington Heights, IL, devoted son of Doris and the late Martin DeMar; loving brother of Cindi (John) Malisia and the late Larry DeMar; treasured uncle of Shaina (Eric) Murtaugh and Hannah (Dave) Roesch; great uncle of Talia and Alanna Murtaugh; and highly respected friend and colleague to many. Alan built a successful financial planning services business, DeMar Financial Planning Services, Ltd. He always represented his clients honorably with high ethics. Graveside service and shiva will be private. The Thursday, June 4th service will be live streamed at 1:30 p.m. CT at Under Recent Services, click on Alan’s photo and scroll down to Service Details. Contributions may be made to a cancer research organization of your choice. Info: The Goldman Funeral Group (847) 478-1600.
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Service Details

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    Thursday, June 4th, 2020 | 1:30pm
    Thursday, June 4th, 2020 1:30pm
    If you would like to watch the recording of Alan's service, please click the link below: Alan DeMar Funeral Service.mp4
    Rabbi Ilana Baden
    Cantor Scott Simon
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    Graveside service and shiva will be private. The Thursday, June 4th service will be live streamed at 1:30 p.m. CT at Under Recent Services, click on Alan’s photo and scroll down to Service Details.


Donations are being accepted for: Cancer Research Organization of Your Choice.


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Sylvia Irizarry

Posted at 02:07pm
I loved Alan dearly. I wish I could have done more for him during his last months of life besides praying for him. I considered bringing him soup and other comfort foods but the pandemic and quarantine got in the way. I was happy to hear that he was with his sister whom he loved and I’m sure she took such good care of him. As for me, Alan was my sturdy, well grounded, strong oak tree. I was a yellow balloon w/a little diamond inside w/a pink ribbon just floating around. Somehow, my ribbon became comfortably tangled in his branches diamond grew. Thank you Alan. Thank you to your entire family for nurturing such a wonderful human being.

Spencer Biegel

Posted at 06:18pm
Best of friends since grammar school. Our families were so close that In high school Marty dated my mom. We spoke to each other about once every few months or so for the past 50 years or so. I will miss my longest best friend, and send my condolences to all of the family and friends. So sorry i cannot attend the funeral. Living in AK makes it so very hard at times like this.

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